Here are some reasons your child is being secretive.
- They think you won’t understand
They might think you will be mad or disappointed. Maybe they think they will harm you emotionally.
2. They are embarrassed
Maybe they don’t like when you ask them if they have a crush. It can be Embarrassing. And they don’t want you to laugh because people at school probably laugh.
3. Sibling secrets
If your child has siblings they might have a code that they do not tell anyone their brother or sisters secrets. Just tell them if one of them is in danger then tell you.
4. They are doing something you forbidden.
We all have those rules and one that we don’t like. Maybe they talked to that one child of you rival. Again if it is something that is unsafe tell them to stop.
5. They have no secret.
And they are tired of you nagging them. And not trusting them.
Hopefully this solves your problems.